I still am in shock to this day. I remember getting a phone call from scarlet and she was crying. It was the saddest thing ever. I hung up the phone with her, us both in tears and i told my mom what had happened. She burst into tears and we went straight to their house to comfort them. I was really close friends with scarlet even though i didnt know haley that well. But i know she touched the hearts of everyone she met. She was so fun and loving, she knew how to put a smile on everyones face. shes the person everyone wants to be...the athletic, fun caring person with a ton of friends. I miss haley very much.
Haley your in my prayers and so is the urbin family
I miss you, miss you so bad
I don't forget you, oh it's so sad
I hope you can hear me
I remember it clearly
The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh
Nah nah la la la nah nah
I didn't get around to kiss you
Goodbye on the hand
I wish that I could see you again
I know that I can't
Oooooh
I hope you can hear me cause I remember it clearly
The day you slipped away
Was the day I found it won't be the same
Ooooh
I had my wake up
Won't you wake up
I keep asking why
And I can't take it
It wasn't fake
It happened, you passed by
Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go
Somewhere I can't bring you back
Now your gone, now your gone
There you go, there you go,
Somewhere your not coming back
The day you slipped away
Was the day i found it won't be the same noo..
The say you slipped away
Was the day that i found it won't be the same oooh...
Nah nah, nah nah nah, nah nah
I miss you
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That song came on my radio today and it just reminded me of you Haley, you've been popping in my head a lot lately so I felt I should put this song in here in memory of you...
your missed soo much..
us graduating isn't going to be the same without you walking across that stage with us...
x0x0x
🙁
anonymous
Its weird not having haley here she's not sharing all the things she should be w/everyone, its been hard w/out her knowing she should be here.. leaving highschool
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God laid for me.
I took his hand when I heard him call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks undone must stay that way.
I found that peace at close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
Ah, yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I've savored much,
Good friends, good times,
A loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and share with me
God wanted me now;
He set me free.
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-Arms Of An Angel-
In the arms of an angel
Love showing us what we have forgotten
In the arms of an angel
True friends left behind
Tired of the endless pain
Wanting to step out
To run away
You have survived
You finally saw the light
You didn’t fall for the devils lies
You put up a fight
Even though you were almost lost
In the arms of an angel
Memories flash through your mind
Memories of love
Memories of hate
Of when you thought you weren’t meant to be loved
When you thought it was too late
In the arms of an angel
Eyes close, hearts break.
You are blessed.
You are saved.
In the arms of an angel
From darkness to the light
May you know the path.
Take the angels hand
Don’t look back
Tears fall waiting for heavens call
In the arms of an angel
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Miss you terribly Haley, May you look after all of us now as you have earned your angel wings...
I have known the Urbins for quite some time now. My only regret is not getting to know Haley better! She was my friend's sister and my sister's friend. But somehow, when I heard the news I was amazed by how much of an impact it brought upon me. I see her family often now, and everytime I can't help but picture Haley. From what her family reflects through her memory, I can only imagine a glowing angel with a new set of wings and a new task of over looking her family and friends, making sure they are as peaceful and beautiful as ever. From what I know of the Urbins, they are this way. Which is reassurance of how wonderful of a person Haley truly was and will always remain to be. Living in the hearts of everyone she touched,including me.
~*~Scarlet, everytime I see you smile I imagine Haley being the sparkle in your eye. That way, I know she is always with you. And when I lie in bed at night thinking, how could that happen to her?...I hope Scarlet is okay?...Why would He chose her sister?...I know you are okay because I saw Haley there to comfort you. I just hope you see her, too.~*~
This family will always have an eternal place in my heart devoted to comfort and love. Thanks so much for all you have done for me. You are a truly strong and compassionate family.
Haley ...you were the best friend for alot of us I miss you so much!!! Summer reminds me of you and our group of girls..things are changing and it's not the same ...I wish you were here to put it all back to how it used to be .... I wish I had the strenght to go and vist your family all the time but I don't but I want them to know I think of how they are doing everyday and I wish them the best
I love you always
..your friend
speaking from experience
Go and see Judy, Rob, Klair and Scarlett. You'll feel better and I know they would love to see you too.
I ran across this today and thought it really fit Haley and the short time she was here. Make her short dash with us count and live your dash the way Haley lived hers, always kind to everyone.
I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone,
From the beginning...to the end.
He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.
(1930 - 2005)
For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her,
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars...the house...the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel
And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile.
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?
🙁 I dident know Haley but i do know what all her friends and family are going through. I know how hard it is to loose someone so unexpecently and sadly. I know what it’s like to suddenly burst into tears because you hear a lost ones name call out down the street, or when you hear a song or see something they loved. I know how hard it is to get over the fact that there gone.but stay strong it will help.and always remember they will allways be with you and its not goodbye its see you later.
*I really wish i had met Haley because of how strong, intelligent, and inspirational she seems.
Remember she would have wanted for you to be happy . 🙂
a old friend of Haley's
I couldn't agree with you more.
...
You never know how hard it is until it happens to someone you know, that for sure.
Sew this up with threads of reason and regret
So I will not forget. I will not forget
How this felt one year six months ago
I know I cannot forget. I cannot forget
I'm falling into memories of you and things we used to do
Follow me there
A beautiful somewhere
A place that I can share with you
I can tell that you don't know me anymore
It's easy to forget, sometimes we just forget
And being on this road is anything but sure
Maybe we'll forget, I hope we don't forget
I'm falling into memories of you and things we used to do
Follow me there
A beautiful somewhere
A place that I can share with you
Close up these eyes, try not to cry
All that I've got to pull me through is memories of you
Memories of you
Memories of you
Memories of you
I'm falling into memories of you and things we used to do
Follow me there
A beautiful somewhere
A place that we can share
Falling into memories of you and things we used to do
Wow. I never thought that something like this would happen. I mean, you hear on the news about how it happened to someone else, and then you find it happening to someone you know.
Haley was an extremely gifted and talented person. I didn't know her that well, just enough to know that she could touch the hearts of everyone by her love of life, and affection towards others.
But when she passed on, she left behind in everyone of the the faith of love, caring, and the ability to live your life to the fullest and to not regret how you live it.
Though she may be gone in this world, she will always remain inside all of our hearts. May she never be forgotten.
Haley was an extrodanery person!She always knew how to cheer someone up when they were down or sad.Haley was a person that everyone always wanted to be around because they knew that they would always have someone to have their back.Haley isnt gone i know it...but even if you say she is, i dont believe...because haley is always with me and in my prayers.Haley was everything anybody could ever want...haley is my rolemodel and that will never change!Haley you have touched soo many lifes its unexplainable!But most of all when i heard that you had passed i didnt believe it cause why would the man above take such a wonderful person at such an young age...but you know what they say "god only takes the good"...and i guess you were one of the best!
Haley my heart is always with you! I love you and miss u! 🙁
I was just looking at sites with poetry when I came across this site. I became really sad when I started to read the poetry. What is really weird is my borthday is December 17th and my name is Haley. Her poems pertain to how I am also. I am sorry for your loss.
i found this song n immediatley thought of Haley, i hope this can be a sense of peace to all who need it
IF YOU COULD SEE ME NOW
Our Prayers have all been answered
I finally arrived
The healing that had been delayed
Has now been realized
No one's in a hurry
There's no schedule to keep
We're all enjoying Jesus
Just sitting at His feet
If you could see me now
I'm walking streets of gold
If you could see me now
I'm standing tall and whole
If you could see me now
You'd know I've seen His face
If you could see me now
You'd know the pain's erased
You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place
If you could see me now
My light and temporary trials
Have worked out for my good
To know it brought Him glory
When I misunderstood
Though we've had our sorrows
They could never compare
What Jesus has in store for us
No language can share
If only you could see me now
I still don't believe this is real. It feels wrong without you here. I can only hope that you realize how many hearts you've touched and lives you've changed for the better. You've taught me to not worry so much about the problems in life. All that matters is that you live life to the fullest, which you tried your best to do. I respect you for your courage and strength.
I've been thinking for a long time, what I should say when I sign this. It's hard for me to do this. Haley and I were the best of friends. Everyother day, if not everyday we were together, inseperable. It's hard being here without her, but I know she is here with me, although I cannot see her. Going from spending everyday with someone, to never seeing them is the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life. I never missed anyone, as much as I miss Haley. To put in words the way I feel, isn't possible. To the Urbin Family, thanks for treating me as your own, you're like a second family to me.. stay strong.
and Haley, I can't wait until we are together again, laughing nonstop like we always were...
Honestly, I did not know Haley as much as I wouldve liked to. But she made me feel welcome whenever she talked to me. She was definitally a great person and will be missed.
so its been over a year now...and im finally signign this. i thought i never could bring myself to do this because i wasn't around when the accident happened. haley has to be one of the most incredible people i have ever met in my life. when i was in school with her in 7th grade we had so many inside jokes. my personal favorites are when she would laugh like woody the wood pecker, and sing the chipmunks christmas song. i remember sitting on the phone with ehr for hours just laughing, she never had one negative thing to say. i dont think anyone else could have brought so much joy and happiness into everyones life, just reading all these entries shows how much she impacted everyones life. even though i moved away and didn't talk to her for some time befor she passed i will always remember her and that contagious smile!
haley i love you so much i will never forget you!!!
I know it's been over a year since you've graced god with your presents, and have really made an impact on everybody surrounding you. I didn't know you very much at all, but I remember looking at you and wishing to be you. You have the most beautiful heart, and gorgeous smile. I'll never be able to get that image out of my head. When i first heard you were in a car accident, i was scared, petrafied. I know, and everybody else knows, you didn't deserve this, nobody deserves this. After reading all of the guestbook entries, it shows how many lives you've changed, and how many people you made just that little bit happier. This isn't the end for you, nor will there ever be. You were given a gift, a new experince to make things right, a brand new chance. Life isn't always about "living and dying" but where you go when it happens. There may not be a god, and there may not be angels, but theres somthing up there, and i know you're watching over everybody, and we know you're alright. I hope the urbins' are doing alright, because i know you are.
Thanks for being a blessing to all of our hearts, and you'll never fade away.
I knew Haley from school. she was a vering caring loving person. Everday I wonder why God would take such a loving generous person.
My heart and prayers go out to u Urbin family. Haley, u will be in my thoughts and my heart 4 ever!
anonymous
Its weird not having haley here she's not sharing all the things she should be w/everyone, its been hard w/out her knowing she should be here.. leaving highschool